Talking about youngster’s lifestyle, I’m surprised that these days many of them have a terribly bad, ridiculous lifestyle. I have interviewed many girls from different countries such as united states, canada, european countries, and south america countries. I asked them whether they have sex before marriage, or usually called premarital sex. Oh my god, most of them said yes. They said that having sex before marriage is okay. There is no problem to do that. Furthermore, many of them don’t only have sex with one guy. They even experience sex with more than one guy. What a crazy thing!
I just wonder how the girls don’t realize that they are actually the victims. Eventhough they really enjoy having sex with their boyfriends, they should realize that premarital sex is always not good for them. When a guy asks a girl to go to bed with him before marriage, it means that he doesn’t really love her. In such condition, he actually only wants sex. He only wants to get her sweetness. He only wants to taste her sexy body. He only wants to enjoy her hot body. Not more than that. In fact, most of those guys just leave her after he have had sex with her many times. They just leave her after they feel bored of her. The condition will be worse if the girl gets pregnant and then bears a baby. Those guys just leave her and her baby. They don’t want to be responsible at all.
We find too many stories telling us this fact. First a guy says to her girlfriend that he loves her very much. And of course, every girl will feel happy to hear that. After a while, the guy ask her to have sex, and mostly the girl will be hard to refuse that because she is afraid he will break the relationship if she refuses. For she doesn’t want to lose his love, she agrees to have premarital sex with him. In some cases, the girl gets pregnant. She then asks him to marry her. “Marry me, please,” she asks. Unfortunately, the guy says: “I’m so sorry, I can’t do that. I’m not ready for that now. Actually, I just want to have fun with you.” As a result, the girl now only has two choices: abortion or being a single parent for her baby.
And although the girl uses birth-control pills to avoid pregnancy, she has to realize that having sex with a guy before marriage is not real love. For guy, premarital sex is just likely that he plays and conquers the girl. Every guy always feels that having sex with a girl without marriage is a great luck for him. In such condition, a guy always feels that he is very lucky that he can play the girl, just like playing a toy. He can play her however he wants, and then he can throw her into rubbish bin after he feels bored of her. He feels satisfied that he can conquer the girl. Moreover, he feels very satisfied if he can exploit her as much as possible. So, the more willing and the wilder the girl is, the more satisfied the guy will be. I am a guy, I can exactly feel this.
Most of girls say that they have premarital sex with their boyfriend because they love them. “But I love him. He is special,” a girl said. I’d like to say that girls use their feelings and heart too much, instead of their common sense and brain. Many people say: “A girl has sex to get love, and a guy seeks love to have sex.” You, girls, can believe it or not, but it’s a fact that a guy will not respect a girl anymore after he has premarital sex with her. After having sex with her, particularly when he has done it many times with her, he feels that she is so easy that he doesnt need to respect her anymore. After conquering her on bed, he feels that he is very superior upon her. And in such way, he loses his respect upon her. Again, I am a guy, I can exactly feel this. So now I ask you, girls: “Do you want guys to look at you this way? Do you want guys to not respect and honor you?” If you answer yes, you can have premarital sex. On the other hand, if you answer no, say no to premarital sex.
Finally, I want to give good news to girls who keep their virginity until her wedding day. If a girl is still a virgin at her first time with her husband, it will be the best, most special gift for him. The husband will feel that she does give him her most valuable asset only for him. As a result, he will love her very very much. He will give his true love to her because he find her so good, nice, and kind. You, girls, have to know that it is quite hard for any husband to find that her wife has had sex with another man. At least, this works for good guys who keep their virginity and haven’t had sex before marriage.
So you, girls, are now to choose: waiting to have sex until you get married, or being an easy girl by having sex before marriage. You are free to choose whatever you want, but you are to take the consequence of your choice.
